"It’s strange. As her eleventh birthday approaches, I’ve noticed that I’m just not struck with that heart-tugging, bittersweet feeling that usually comes every time one of my other children turn a year older. I’m excited for her, of course, but I’m just not welling up with tears and wanting to cry because she’s growing up—the way I do whenever the other kids hit a birthday.
And I know why.
It’s because I know she’ll never leave me. I’ll never have to face the reality of her growing older, because I know she’ll be mine forever. Her growing a year older doesn’t mean the same thing that it means with my other three, who will one day go on about their lives—whether that means college or work or becoming teachers or Navy Seals or Broadway stars. No, unlike the other children, I know my younger girl—my little petunia—will stay with me forever.
She has to.
I wouldn’t be able to breathe without her.
Now, lest you think this intensity of a mother-daughter relationship is unhealthy, do not worry! When she turns eighteen, I will have absolutely no problem allowing her to spread her wings and fly. If she wants to go to college, I’ll be 100% behind her.
No, really. I’ll literally be behind her, following her with my suitcase, dragging my favorite pillow and comforter behind me and carrying my boom box. Waving and hollering, “Wait for Mama, sweetie! I’ll be right there! Save me the top bunk!”
If she ever leaves…I’m going with her.
And that’s why I’m not worried about her birthday."By Ree Drummond
My sweet Quinny. I love you more than moon. You are my star.
Happy 7th Birthday Aubrie Quinn!
5 comments:
I agree she is such a special and sweet girl. Happy Birthday honey!!!
She is the sweetest, most adorable girl! Happy Birthday my sweet Aubrie.
She reminds me of a daughter at that age.
wrapped around her finger
She really is beautiful...Hope she had a wonderful day
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